Hard to believe, but it’s the first anniversary of my GRS. Top and bottom. You want details? Use your imagination. Or go back and read my posts from a year ago. Facebook actually reminded me about them. They sent me a notification of what I had...
by Danielle Badler It’s been almost exactly five months since my GRS surgery. Time to assess. I’ve heard people in similar situations say, “I’m still the same person.” I agree and disagree. Oh sure, I have the same flesh and blood. Although, uh, the shape of the flesh...
Guest Post by Danielle Badler I’ve run into this situation a number of times. There I am, chatting away, and the conversation meanders into our respective pasts. Loves. Marriages. Kids. Work history. Places we’ve lived. Interests. And, again and again, the dilemma raises its dirty little head...
Guest Post by Danielle Badler I thought my process of transitioning ended with my Gender Affirmation Surgery in December. I was wrong. I don’t think it will ever end. And I don’t just mean mentally. That’s a given. Because, if you don’t stop growing and learning, you fall...
Guest Post by Danielle Badler 10 Days Post Op Complete. That’s how I feel. Complete. For the first time. No more feeling like a science project. Or a work in progress. Or a hybrid human. It’s behind me. And it feels great. Really great. Two days before surgery, Deena,...
Guest Post by Danielle Badler At this writing, I am exactly eight days away from what I’m euphemistically calling, say it with an announcer’s stentorian delivery, “the conclusion to the physical portion of our transition program.” How do I feel? Wound up. Excited. Nervous. Excited. Curious. Excited....